No Nut November

Before I get into this spicy email I want to say thanks to all that replied yesterday and told me of similar feelings of depression they go through and gave me support.

Ok…No Nut November. I tried to see if I could benefit from this challenge. The idea of NNN is to see if you can go a whole month without having an orgasm. I believe the challenge applies to women as well. I figured there might be some health benefits to the concept. If you come from real estate, you might see NNN as “triple net lease”, but Ai wasn’t confused at all. I asked “what are the health benefits of NNN?" it responded:

"No Nut November" (NNN), a month-long abstinence challenge, may boost mental discipline, focus, and productivity by encouraging self-control and reducing reliance on instant gratification. Short-term abstinence might increase testosterone, enhancing energy, mood, and reducing fatigue. It can also build confidence, reduce guilt tied to overindulgence, and foster a sense of accomplishment. For some, it improves relationships by redirecting attention to emotional connections and may enhance sexual health by increasing sensitivity and breaking compulsive habits. However, it can cause frustration or irritability and may not suit those with healthy sexual routines. NNN’s value lies in promoting self-awareness and intentional habits.

On the 1st of this month I told Natalie I am going to see if I can accomplish this feat. At I was on a roll, 3 days of no nutting and I felt great. The main issue I encountered on day 4 was that my partner didn’t share the same goal. She really didn’t want me to succeed. I know what your are all thinking, she is being selfish, but I entertained her seductions and failed at my commitment.

If any of you out there have successfully done NNN, I want to hear from you. What were the benefits. I know many of you reading right now did 2 year Mormon missions, where nutting while awake was prohibited. Maybe you were like me and prayed for really good dreams, leading to nocturnal emissions. I had 6 months at a time in my 20s where I was NN. So, I know it can be done. I am not sure if Mormonism still prohibits masturbation from it’s members. I am still a member, but I don’t follow the guidelines and I am not familiar with policy changes that occur with new prophets ruling.

I have several topics around sexuality I really want to speak on, but they deserve their own email. I am going to put an organic ad in this email on the topic of sexual wellness. A man named Justen found me and gave me this massage cream that is all natural and edible and safe for the vagina. It’s called Evree, and here is the instagram page. It was this product that was responsible for me failing NNN. Natalie used her jiujitsu and Evree, and I was out on day 4 of the month.

Justen gave me a few samples to hand out, so I will bring those to my 420th email celebration happening on the 4th of December in Sandy. Yes, I have been emailing each day for the last year and when added to my prior 2 years of Substack publication, the total emails I have sent will sum up 420 on December 2nd.

I really want to keep going daily because it helps structure my otherwise chaotic life that has very little rhythm. I do feel that this is the last month of my daily emails. Natalie wants to use this gloomy cold winter to practice tantric love making and I feel like I should support her hobbies and interests on this subject.

Happy Sunday. The sun is shining on me now at 3:30 and I feel fantastic. 4:20 is nigh and all is well.

Scott X

Here is a photo I shot today at lunch in the snow of the girl that keeps me from reaching my goals.